What would you do if you invited friends to your home for a meal/braai and they said they will check with their partner and get back to you but you still have not heard from them on the day the invite was for? And this was not the first time they had not responded to an invite – would you
a. follow up with them
b. assume they are coming
c. assume they are not coming and make other plans
I would be interested to hear if this has happened to anyone else, and if so how they handled it.
In my case I opted for (c) but they arrived anyway. I had nothing prepared and to cut a long story short they left again.
When we receive an invite the answer is a prompt and courteous yes or no. If there is any doubt that we can make it I’d rather say no thank you than keep someone hanging on as they might want to invite others in our place.
I am rather used to business invites being treated with indifference but I expect more from my friends. Can’t help feeling really disillusioned about this at the moment.